@ DesirousOfChange: "His "mistake" was not telling them to FUCK OFF and that they have no control over him."
What DesirousOfChange said.
I myself have been in issues where I did not stand up to others in matters that affected me. I am an introvert by nature and I tend to avoid events that could lead to conflict but I regret not having stood up in those moments of truth.
If I were in his shoes I would have challenged the elders and told them to try throwing him out and if they did he would call the cops.